Saturday 9 August 2014

Agony


A 15 years old girl found out that she's 6 weeks pregnant. And the first thought that came to her mind is "I'm gonna give birth to this child!".
 And she excitedly break the news to her boyfriend, and the moment he heard that she's pregnant, he immediately told her to abort it away. But she kept persuading him to let her keep the innocent child, and he agreed. 
But when both of them break the news to his mother, she scolded the little girl and ask her to immediately go for abortion than threatened her that if she insist on keeping this child, her son won't be responsible for anything and they won't acknowledge the child as their grandson/granddaughter. 
She became depressed. When she's at home, her family members threatened her that if she is going to keep the child, they are going to chase her out and make her homeless. 
She cried for days and nights, trying to think of a way to protect her child. She went for her 1st scanning, and she heard her child's heart beat and saw the heart beating, she immediately break into tears and ran out of the clinic and told them she's gonna keep this child. 
But her mum continuously persuading her to abort it away, she told her mum to give her some time to think. She dragged till she's 3 months 2 weeks pregnant, because within that period she kept seeking for help from others, asking for advises and etc. 
The counsellor told her that if she want to keep the child, she will have to put her child up for adoption after giving birth because she's too young and moreover she's still studying and the hospital will track back the time when she's pregnant and if they found out that she's underage, a police report will be made and she will get her boyfriend into trouble.
She refuse to give her child up for adoption due to her own reasons (it's not easy to give your child away to someone whom you do not know)
At the end of the day, she still has got no choice and the only option is to go for abortion. 
Because she do not want her child growing up to be like her, growing up without a complete family and knowing that everyone dislike him/her. 
Can you imagine how painful and saddening the whole process is? 
She have to sacrifice so much and when she went for abortion, her life is at risk because she's 3 months 2 weeks pregnant which is very risky. 
She even requested to have a picture of the ultra-scan to keep, the doctor do not allow and even give some stupid reason. 
And, 1 week after the abortion, the boyfriend left her with other another girl.
- The only thing she asked for is to keep her child and hope that her parents and boyfriend will accept him/her. Is it really so difficult?
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If you were in her situation, what will you do? 

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People criticising her because she isn't strong enough to protect her own child. 

But who really understand the pain she's going through? 
She is all alone during this whole incident. No family, no friends, NOTHING AT ALL.
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So please, stop making unnecessary remarks or criticism about her. 

Different people have different ways of protecting their child.
At least she's better than some irresponsible mummies out there that throw their responsibility to someone else. Just like her mum (the person she dislike & hate the most).
She know she can't give her child the life she planned for, she know she is financially unstable & she know clearly that she do not want her child to have a incomplete family like when she was younger. 
So she have to make the hardest decision of her entire life.
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Please don't judge her just because people talk shits to you about her. See and feel her yourself. I bet you will feel the pain and agony in her. 
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NO HUMANS ARE PERFECT. 


Thanks for reading! ~
XOXO

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